Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Life lately

Its hot hot hot! And Lilia adores playing in the "waterfall" -she means the ocean. And Max finds the sound of the ocean very relaxing and sleeps the entire time.
My handsome boy, he's now 1 month
Pop's retired! This is his last day in the office.
Lily put her baby down the front of her leotard. She sees me with Max in the front pack. I think she'll be a wonderful mother :)
This weekend was the dance recital. I teach Modern Dance at Leslie's Dance Studio. They danced to Firefly and had glow bracelets and glow earrings in the dark for part of the dance. It was amazing!
My best friend Kristin got married. This is the three of us BFF! Janelle, Kristin, and Me.
Max wore his sailor suit and slept most of the time. We had to cover his ears while the band played, it was so loud!

He's getting so big!
This is the newborn outfit he came home from in the hospital. It doesn't fit him anymore.
Max wore a suit to Pop's retirement dinner.
My handsome men
Congrats on your retirement Pop!
Pop dancing with Lily at his party.
Pop teaching Lily the joy of roasting marshmallows. She didn't have the patience to roast them.

I chopped my hair off myself. It feels so great to not have the long hair on my neck in this heat.
practicing before church with Grammy. Both still need to get dressed.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

3...2...1...

It's the final countdown until David is finished his first year of teaching! Tomorrow is his last day. Today was the last day for students. It has been a difficult year for him. Quick recap of the year-
Sept- School began for David at the Y.A.L.E. School, an alternative school. He taught middle school and high school age students. No more than 10 students in a room. His was self contained, meaning he taught all subjects except PE, Health and computers. He had lunch with his students and no prep periods. He had to learn lots about Spec. Ed. and all the paperwork that goes along with it.

He had good days and bad, some really bad. The students could be violent or threatening, making for a stressful environment.

He began his masters degree in Special Ed this fall also.

By spring David decided he needed to look for another school to teach in. NJ isn't in the greatest economic shape at the moment. Teachers are losing jobs or taking cut backs throughout the entire state. He has applied to many schools in and out of NJ. It is a giant step of faith to walk into the future without a plan but we know Heavenly Father will guide us.

I have shed more than one tear this year knowing my husband is unhappy at his job. Some days I asked him if he would be able to get up the next morning and do it all over again. I know he did it for me and our children.

We've been blessed to have medical insurance, a good steady income, and new friends. David has many years experience after this year. And he's been able to share the gospel with those he's met. He was able to show those around him who an mormon is and what they're like. He's had spiritual discussions with co-workers on the worth of souls is great in the sight of God and that we don't have to earn His love. He's shown them Mormons are Christians.

My husband is incredible and I love him to pieces. He works so hard to provide for us. I once asked him what I could do to make it all easier for him. He said "you're already doing it. When I come home you don't yell at me, you're nice to me and you and Lily love me." Well, my job is a lot easier than his has been. Thank you for being so amazing David!

Friday, June 11, 2010

Mr. Max

we are all in love with him!
He has big blue eyes that are staying open longer and longer now.
he'll be tall like his daddy someday.
sweet dreams
Monkeying around-socks, shirt and monkey pal
chillin' with daddy


you lookin' at me?
kisses, mwah!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Max is getting big fast!

Max is growing faster than we realize. He had a yellow discharge in his eyes all weekend. I took him to the doctor today and its just clogged tear ducts. She removed his umbilical cord, causing him some discomfort. But in bigger news he's gained 11oz in 4 days! The doctor said "most newborns gain 0.5 oz a day, not 3 oz a day", they said Max is very healthy. He certainly likes his mommy's milk!

Also he rolled over twice today! How crazy is that?! Lilia rolled over on the table right after she was born, but didn't do it again for a few months. I don't really expect this to last but the first time was tummy to back this afternoon and late this evening was back to tummy. CRAZY!
They love each other!



We're the beach Broughs!nap time with DaddyOur big boy!

Friday, May 28, 2010

We're home from the hospital

On Wednesday morning we were discharged from the hospital. Max has been such a mellow baby, its been a very calm transition to having two children. Poor baby was circumsized only 2 hours before we left the hospital. He's been a little on edge ever since. But I think with a little time and healing that will pass. Because I delivered so late at night our stay was very brief. I'm happy to be home with my family. Lilia was very sad each time she had to leave me. She would also cry because we'd promised her baby Max was going to our home just not yet. She wanted us home with her.
She's been a great help. As soon as we arrived home he pooped. She heard me say he was poopy and she walks away from me towards the bathroom saying "yucky poopy, Mommy" very seriously. Next thing I know she brings me one of her diapers, the box of wipes and a disposal bag for the diaper. She then expected me to hand over the baby and let her get to work. Thankfully during the diaper change she was more interested in his "yucky belly" (belly button) than his special parts. She calls anything special on any of us our "body". We're gonna stick with that label for a quite a while i think. I don't want to be walking around in the grocery store and have her start telling people about his "body" with any other words. "Body" is good!

I'm a very visual person so to me pictures are my favorite. Here are a bunch more, hope you enjoy!
Mommy and Max ready to go home!

He's our cool dude!I received 3 beautiful floral bouquets and a dozen roses. Thank you for all the kindness and love!
(We also came home on Mom's birthday so some flowers were hers.)

Max with his eyes open. It doesn't seem like it happens too much. He loves his rest, and mommy's enjoying a lot of rest too.

Grammy and Pop visited us in the hospital! We were able to skype with Grandma Joy and Grandpa Larry in Utah from the hospital too!

Max in his bouncey seat. He has some room to grow :)
One of my favorite photos of him! He's so beautiful, and makes many cute faces in his sleep.

First family photo of Four after we came home.
My angel, Lilia wanting attention! She makes sure we don't ever forget how cute she is. I don't think I could forget :)
The two men in my life!

Our angels from heaven!

Max had a dr. check-up today, 4 days old. He left the hospital weighing 7 lbs 8oz. (its normal to lose some weight for up to 2 weeks.) He weighed in today at 8 lbs. 1 oz. He loves his mama's milk! He's super healthy and doing great! I'm feeling pretty good and have lots of energy. He sleeps 2-3 hours at a time at night and doesn't keep me up for more than a few minutes at a time. We're all adjusting well. Yesterday was his first trip to the park and we visited City Hall, my dad's office. He'll certainly be kept on the move cause I don't like to just sit home for very long. Thanks for all the love and well wishes. Come and visit us if you can. We'll also be heading to Utah in less than a month, so maybe we'll see you then!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Max David Brough has arrived!

Our little man arrived last night at 11:25pm!
May 24, 2010
weighing in at 7 lbs 13 oz, 21 inches long














We're doing great! Labor and delivery took 7 hours total. Max is perfect, calm and our newest love affair. Lilia adores him and applauded when we told her we get to take him home. Daddy gets his splint removed today and the best rehabilitation Mommy can think of is changing poopy diapers :) We head home on Wednesday and would love visitors or friends to Skype with anytime!